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Make him feel like a piece of meat: “It’s a huge turn-on to hear a woman objectify me,” 30-year-old Christopher says. “It seems simple, but it’s so powerful.” Take his words to heart and don’t be afraid to tell your guy everything you like about his body or what he does that drives you crazy. He’ll be obsessed.

That’s not what objectification means. That’s not making him feel like a piece of meat. That’s just sexual compliments. Yeah, sure, it’s easy to say “I don’t know what those ladies are complaining about, you can objectify me anytime” if you think it means your girlfriend tells you you have sexy abs.

Objectification is focusing on a person’s usefulness to you with total disregard for their desires. In the context of compliments, it’s not saying “You turn me on.” It’s saying “You turn me on, and whether you want to turn me on is utterly irrelevant.”

Saying “nice ass” to a person who’s deliberately wiggling their ass at you is a compliment; saying “nice ass” to a person who’s just walking by is objectification. “I want to sleep with her” is expressing desire; “I’d hit it” is objectification. “You’re sexy” is nice to say on a date because it’s a compliment; “you’re sexy” is hideously undermining to say at a business meeting because it’s objectification.

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— The Pervocracy, breaking down both Cosmo and objectification with grace and panache.  (via albinwonderland)
tagged → #good #misandry #feminism #sex #q
"Men have called me a man-hater, a feminazi, frigid, a bitch… but in my mind it always translates as “You don’t need me to validate your existence, and that scares me."
— (via xenaamro)
tagged → #good #feminism #misandry #q
stormborn-slytherin: face-down-asgard-up: towritelesbiansonherarms: theewhitetiger: lostgeekette: kahn-iceay: Westboro stated intentions to picket Sandy Hook victim funerals, so Anonymous hacked them, and published everything. - Imgur bless you Anonymous “While we certainly do not condone illegal activity, it is hard not to root for Anonymous as they take it to these sad, pathetic excuses for human beings from the Westboro Baptist Church.” These westboro fuckers are despicable human beings. and i use that term loosely Sorry but I am full on cackling. embarrassed that they used a fedora mascot but i can’t say i’m sad about this

stormborn-slytherin:

face-down-asgard-up:

towritelesbiansonherarms:

theewhitetiger:

lostgeekette:

kahn-iceay:

Westboro stated intentions to picket Sandy Hook victim funerals, so Anonymous hacked them, and published everything. - Imgur

bless you Anonymous

“While we certainly do not condone illegal activity, it is hard not to root for Anonymous as they take it to these sad, pathetic excuses for human beings from the Westboro Baptist Church.”

These westboro fuckers are despicable human beings. and i use that term loosely

Sorry but I am full on cackling.

embarrassed that they used a fedora mascot but i can’t say i’m sad about this

barackobama: We saved this photo to our hard drive as fab4.jpeg.

barackobama:

We saved this photo to our hard drive as fab4.jpeg.

barackobama: Dear youths of Tumblr, We made a new website for you. Hope you love it. xo, Obama 2012 

barackobama:

Dear youths of Tumblr,

We made a new website for you. Hope you love it.

xo,

Obama 2012 

fuckyeahfeminists: thatisnotfeminism: this is wonderful.  this. is. AMAZING.

fuckyeahfeminists:

thatisnotfeminism:

this is wonderful. 

this. is. AMAZING.

tagged → #good #feminism
thedailywhat: Breaking News of the Day: Sandusky Found Guilty On 45 Counts: Former Penn State assistant football coach Jerry Sandusky has been found guilty on 45 of 48 counts of child sex abuse in the scandal that brought down Joe Paterno, theNew York Times is reporting. Should be enough to keep him in prison for the rest of his life. [deadspin]

thedailywhat:

Breaking News of the Day: Sandusky Found Guilty On 45 Counts: Former Penn State assistant football coach Jerry Sandusky has been found guilty on 45 of 48 counts of child sex abuse in the scandal that brought down Joe Paterno, theNew York Times is reporting. Should be enough to keep him in prison for the rest of his life.

[deadspin]